Definitive guide for me has always been the mobo manual, where you'll find a section on types of ram sticks it will take, banks to put sticks in (1,2 or 1,3 or 2,4) or populate all of them, etc.
As this is dell, they want you to "go online, or call", so I'd pump in all your ID's off the back of the unit and see what that brings up, *and* invest in a call to support, and keep pushing up the support chain until it sounds like you've got a knowledgeable engineer-type, or someone who'll consult with that engineer.
Usually, there is the max amount of ram stick size the mobo will take (8GB sticks for yours?), and max slots (4), so I'd tend to agree off the cuff with others that 32GB is the answer, but the mobo guide was always the last word (for me). Also, verify you've got the latest bios (dell puts out a bunch, usually), and the latest chipset drivers ... while you're at it (if possible), get to the latest OS you can on it, and that dell has all the drivers for.
Every once in a while, dell has the odd machine with 4 slots, but only 2 can be populated with certain sizes ... I can't recall these old models off the top of my head, but again, get to those engineer types at dell.
Hope this helps ...