Yes, I know it will come to that.
I know there are endless complaints elsewhere and I had to do a lot more looking into it but I found a solution for now to the above problems.
That is something I am going to check out along with Linux Mint.
A few, very few, people have joined the Linux crowd that, at best, represents 2% of desktop users. How come, after 25 years in the field, Linux is a bit player?
Well, it's because it is darn difficult to get set up, nothing you want is included with the distro, you spend more time at the command line than you ever imagined and, in the end, what do you have? An OS that nobody else uses. And if your hardware isn't supported by the built-in drivers (NVIDIA), life will get truly exciting. In fact, you will get to recompile the drivers every time the kernel is upgraded. Fun times!
In my office, I have 3 machines running Linux Mint, 2 machines running 2.11BSD (similar to 4.3 which is what FreeBSD, NetBSD and the others are built on. I also have 4 machines with Win 10 and a left over All-In-One running Win 7. And I use them all!
Without question, the Linux boxes are the most frustrating.
For whatever reason, I don't have problems with Windows Update. It usually waits for me to approve the changes and, if the change is critical, it does it during off hours. I suppose different users have different experiences. Maybe they should change how Update schedules things.