If i remember correctly, burnt things mostly consist of carbon and sometimes other chemicals like sulphur. Consuming burnt stuff doesnt cause cancer but the carbon can reduce the amount of oxygen in the blood and the sulphur and other chemicals would be considered poisonous however what chemicals are present in something burnt is highly dependent on the composition of air, the materials of the object and the material used to heat/burn it.
So if you burn white toast, than its possible that the leftover bleach would be bad (this is why you should switch to wholemeal and less processed stuff).
As with phones, radiation ,etc, it depends on the total dosage and time. Skin absorbs most of it like with light. If the phone's emf is higher than background radiation thats where the problem arises. Radiation does definitely cause cancer but it depends on the dose rate and total cumulative dose that penetrate the skin. The main danger of the phone isnt emf, its the heat and danger of exploding (like the fake charger that killed someone in australia). Same as you can sleep with your wifi router and laptop next to you. A desktop is a large source of emf (it consumes a lot of watts for a high end gaming rig) but the desktop's case is designed as a faraday cage so it meets the emf specs. Same with any other product, if they meet the specs it is fine but some devices dont and some are just dangerous.
As with other devices like a laptop the biggest danger of a laptop in a dry area is the PSU overheating and the laptop itself getting hot (macbooks disperse heat via the casing) so if you always placed the PSU or laptop itself on your lap (especially for macbooks) than it is definitely going to heat up that area(you know what i mean). Normally laptops have the fan draw air from below and push it out at the back/side.
So the same is with the phone on your head, its bad for your brain because of the heat and long term exposure to more radiation as the heat from a phone comes from both heavy usage (common for many apps like facebook and such that love to use all the resources of your phone), charging, charging and using at the same time (people tend to leave their phones charging with wifi on so apps run) and so on.