I suppose I wouldn't mind if the appearance or skin can be made to match this forum and in size onto the next without the white spaces, convert any fixed element to absolute or a setting, get rid of eye hurting dimming or any overlay stuff on dialogues and loading spinners/animations to a point where I am going to notice 'much difference and don't have to do any work hidng the above elements that annoys me.
I understand where you are coming from. You are mentioning a couple of things that i also do not like about modern webdesign, but from what i experienced, Xenforo only uses these things in moderation, and in some cases i actually prefer it how they are doing stuff.
I have to admit that my eyesight is not getting better. I rather like the larger default fonts of Xenforo and increased spacing.
Whitespace on the sides can be adjusted, and the discussions of whether it is sensible or not to use the full width of the screen are as old as widescreen monitors are.
I have a good comparison for this aspect, one forum that i am also active in has a narrower view, another that i am only occasionally visiting has a full width view.
I personally prefer the narrower view, i find it easier to read. The full width view has enourmous amounts of wasted space, especially on shorter posts.
Yes, the forum list, and the topic list as well are higher than here. You may reasonably see that as wasted space. But the separation works for me.
Loading times indeed sometimes happen. Opening the notification panel sometimes takes a moment, as well as for some reason loading the smilie list. But none of these use full screen dimming or huge spinners, just a small loading animation. I don't think that i ever saw full screen dimming.
Overlays are only used for attached pictures. True, they take a moment getting used to, but image handling in Xenforo works better than it does here.
All said and done, i do not know what of these things are Xenforo defaults, what are plugins, and what are selfmade changes.
Anyway, i sound like a salesman
