The older I get, the more respect I have for my late dad's ability to discuss anything with anyone, regardless of opinions he held, in a mutually useful and interesting manner.
I believe that approach is fundamentally healthy, and the current tribalization and polarization fundamentally unhealthy, for both individuals and the society in general.
When one discusses things –– instead of simply labeling/grouping others into types like is now the standard ––, it doesn't matter if anyone agrees, because it is the only way we can examine complex questions and issues from multiple viewpoints. It does require moving away from "X is bad! You are Y if you support X!" into "X is bad, because Z and W", which is rare nowadays, because humans don't want to focus on things that long anymore, and instead want the instant dopamine kick and then move on to the next thing and the next dopamine kick.
Even being able to describe ones own opinions in ones own words, rather than in political platitudes, is becoming rare. I do see it here when discussions veer towards politics, and I do see thing-oriented people state specific political goals, yes. However, the majority, being human-oriented humans, on all sides of the political spectrum, including political pundits and reporters, seem to be just chanting the tribal songs with little understanding.
I'm not sure if my memory is playing tricks on me, but it seems to me that political debates, and debates in general, used to be much more common. Nowadays it is typical to see people refusing to debate others with opposing viewpoints. This is a huge loss, and in my opinion, a huge societal risk (of division and loss of social cohesion, leading to all sorts of trouble, including violence). It is like a society or tribe intentionally pulling itself apart!