Yes, nitrogen can be a beast to integrate into a process. I think we're up to 3 generators now at work. Two for the select solder systems, and one for pressurizing the conformal coating tanks. None of it is used in the reflow ovens, all 4 lines are air convection ovens. We run thousands of boards a day and don't really see anything driving us to use nitrogen reflow right now. Not running any 01005's yet, customers aren't asking for it, but we run 0201's and micro-BGA's all day long.
If you're still at the level of using T962A ovens though, there's a lot of other paths to go down first which will pay you bigger dividends than nitrogen. You'd be better served by looking into an oven that has hot-air convection, plus the ability to monitor and control actual air temperature. IR stuff just doesn't have the consistency you're going to need in the long term. That and your stencil printing usually has the biggest effect on your final product of any part of an SMT process. A good stencil is worth the extra cost, particularly from a stencil shop that will evaluate your gerbers and can make engineering suggestions.
Don't forget your solder-mask and pad design in your board layout too, that causes us more grief than anything when customers don't have well defined pads or mismatches with the component size.
To be honest though, I wouldn't worry so much about chasing 'shiny' solder joints with lead-free. They're completely normal and acceptable as per IPC-A-610 section 5.1. Your pad/component wetting, fillets, and complete reflow are what you should be focusing on. GC10 tends to work well, but you do need to make sure to mix it before using, otherwise the first few passes don't print very well. That's why they came out with GC-18 a couple years ago, to improve the initial print quality at the cost of 'only' a 6 month shelf life. I find Kester NP545 to be a better performer, doesn't stink anywhere near as much as GC-10, but still gives a fairly long non-refrigerated shelf life.