Can you post a datasheet of the exact component you are after? We know of many manufacturers in Asia that can supply this item. However, you will need to define the height of the plastic insulator; the pin length for the solder tail; the plating of the solder tail; the depth of the pins inside the plastic insulator so that the mating male pin does not interfere with the female, etc.
We have one favorite manufacturer in Shenzhen we can suggest but want to be sure we are talking about the same item. For us, we prototyped with Samtec who makes great and solid parts but for live builds, there were just too expensive. Shifted to Asia for the volume buys. As the parts are rather inexpensive, most likely you will have to purchase in 1k lots (or whatever the vendor states as their MOQ).