For options which rarely need to be changed, I use the footprint like the one in attachment. In this case I can still pick-and-place a jumper resistor to a default position, but user can easily change it later down the line by moving resistor to the other side of that footprint. You can pick the resistor size which you are going to be comfortable with and/or your space constaints, I use 0402 because of how cheap they are and how little room they take on a PCB (the screenshot is made from 10 layer board, so the space on it is quite expensive).
I used solder bridges for the same purpose in the past, but they have proven more problematic for assembly as I couldn't find a way to short them reliably during reflow into "default" position.