I've seen plenty of boards where the tab "pad" is nothing more than a mask defined area on a copper pour covering a large area. It works just fine in reflow, where it would fail would be if the exposed&pasted tab pad area was long enough to pull the sot223 away from the pads for the other feet. I have seen this happen quite often with a D2PAK footprint that was the default in a version of Proteus. I don't think you could tombstone a SOT223, although it would be interesting to see someone explicitly try to...