Ok I managed to plate one of them there are a few tricks
1) put the felt or whatever it is pen into into the solution of electrolyte and pull a vacuum on it for a while to infuse it
2) get a syringe of electrolyte
So its a little like tig welding, when its a big surface you can drip the syringe on the felt periodically while making a stirring motion to get the plating to attach. I don't know why this is but it worked, maybe its getting depleted by the solder or it was doing some kind of chemical cleaning and getting depleted (maybe more HCl is required). I am tempted to hook up a pump to it to turn it into a "mig" process, perhaps it would help if the tip spun as well at slow speed. It needs a vacuum collector too to that can be stuck to the surface to collect drip, its paper towel heavy... but as usual its highly non linear so controlling the drip location with a external syringe a-la tig/acetylene is best, and I am pretty sure a tip heater would help as well.
Very finicky procedure