If it's not in the datasheet, it's not for you. I've never seen DNP components documented, ever, on one of these modules. (I don't recall a case where components were documented on any module, for that matter?)
ICL7660, is a good assumption, a common use case -- but you basically have to trace the entire circuit to know. Or buy a premade 3.3V model in the hopes that they populated exactly these components, and cut whatever jumpers might be needed to make it work. But without that, you don't really know where it connects to the blobs, and what's under them for that matter (real HD44780s, clones, or equivalents?). So there's no design process here, it's just try and see, and hope it doesn't fail catastrophically.
Hmm, I forget what I did last time I ran one on 3.3V; maybe it needed negative contrast bias? Easily enough added on the main board, assuming you aren't terribly strapped for space or anything.
Tim