The problem is that every tool is different. You can't do a generic video....
Ideally the router is driven fromt he schematic. Special markers are putin the she atic that tell the router what signals belong together , what layer they should be on , how wide, the distance, the max length and other restrictions.
That is what it boils down to. You need to fee restrictions to the router.
If you dont tell it anything it just draw random lines. You need to telltot what it can and cannot do.
Depending on the router there will be a list of criteria. The more i telligent the router the more restrictions you will be a ble to feed it.
But, keep in mind, teaching the router is a time consuming task and it requires a lot of experience in doing manual layout to properly sett he criteria.
Autorouters are not a shortcut nor a replacement for a skilled pcb layouter. They are an assistant and can be a time saver for a complex board.