The quote in reply #3 in this thread is from my post
#94, where I stepped in between Sherlock Holmes and DiTBho, with my previous post being
#89.
In real life, I have done exactly the same, broken up "arguments" (among students, and scientists) where one participant is either nitpicking or using
sophistry to mislead or somehow socially "win", without being a participant myself.
It works well, with either the group disbanding immediately, or being ready to restart the conversation from the point it derailed. If there is silence for 3-4 seconds, without anybody moving, I will restart the conversation myself by asking the question at or immediately before the derailing point (typically directing it to the "colossal asshole"), using perfectly calm and inquisitive voice, and letting my face show I'm only interested in proceeding with the question, not with the sophistry, but am perfectly willing to ignore the temporary derailment.
(I've even described similar techniques using a snipe to "shock" the person out of their game, then continue with actual helpful information in a neutral or positive tone. That, too, works weirdly well, even if/when some seriously dislike it.)
By requiring Politically Correct wordage in any technical discussion, you're just asking people to be dishonest, and not say what they think, out of fear of being excluded. While Dave is perfectly within his rights to implement such rules here, it would be exactly the point when I –– but more importantly, I suspect quite a few of the regulars who spend a lot of time here helping others with their questions, having the experience to do so effectively –– would leave.
Because that would basically stop Dave himself from discussing his Batterizer etc. videos here (because he definitely shows how ridiculous their claims are, and by your rules, that kind of talk would be forbidden here), I'm pretty sure that's not going to happen, though. (Dave can post whatever he likes, but when nobody can respond except with praise, there wouldn't
be any discussion, not like there is now.)
And make no mistake: I'm not licking anyones butt here, either. I've argued with Dave hotly before. Thing is, we can argue about things without letting it be personal. I've already told you that before, though; that I, and others, can argue in one thread, and in another thread at the same time, perfectly calmly discuss something else and help each other. Because we disagree about
things, not persons.
Perhaps you would be much more comfortable at one of the StackExchange network sites yourself? They're very strict about wording and tone there, and don't separate persons from their opinions. EEVblog forum is definitely not the only electronics/embedded software forum on the web.