when I see "Aho" I expect the Finnish pronunciation - is it so foolish of me to expect a Finn would too? And how the hell do you get to "British supremacist expectations"
Exactly that. It's not foolish, just completely wrong. I believe you think so because English is the
lingua franca on the internet, and naturally assume it extends to culture (general individual behaviour) as well. It does not.
There are threads on this forum that deal explicitly with how something is pronounced in English, and the one constant in those threads is the various English-speaking people claiming theirs is the right way, and everybody else is wrong. Jokingly in most instances, but still.
In Finland, kids learn English in school. They are taught to emulate British or American English pronunciation. It is so pervasive that many Finns who can speak Rally English just fine (think of things like directions to the nearest post office/store/pharmacy/bus stop), refuse to speak a word, because they're afraid of being laughed at because of their accent. This is more common among the elderly. Indeed, when Finns pick nicknames used in completely Finnish environments (as in Finnish web sites), they usually pick an English one; the more often the younger the person!
It took
me over thirty years to get over that myself, and realize that Rally English is easier to understand, than the mangled emulation of American or British English I was taught to go for.
Now, this has nothing to do with Finnish per se, as in "Finnish is so different"; no. It is just that the pervasiveness of English has masked the variety in cultures, so much so that people tend to assume cultures don't differ that much – especially among those who speak English. Yet, people differ, a lot. (Even in Finland, you have a quite noticeable cultural difference between the "metropolitan" urban Finns and the Finns in smaller towns and rural areas. So much so, that it is becoming a political problem – as in, one side claiming the other
must move to cities, because their desire to live outside urban environments is not only unreasonable and unfathomable, but also too costly.)
Chip on one's Shoulder
Yes, and it's a bad one (I mean literally, something I wish I didn't have): I vastly overreact when somebody claims I did or think something, when I definitely do not.
I used "supremacist" only to get a rise out of you, because "stuck up brit" is one of those stereotypes you often see in media, but in real life, is damned rare. (The ones I've met personally are definitely not, and calling them one would hurt them.)
I don't actually believe you are, if it matters.
If you knew your Finnish colleagues well enough, you'd realize that deep down, if they were told to welcome somebody named Alfred Aho to a tour of the company (or something similar), they'd worry most about their own pronouciation of Aho, and whether it would offend the prof or not. The concept of "but pronouncing it like a Finnish name is the
correct one" would never occur to a typical Finn.
In some ways, it is funny (because it is so different to major cultures); in some ways, it is sad, because I actually think it is a lovely quirk. But I'm biased, of course.