Beryllium Copper? Innnnteresting. I shall have to investigate that someday. Requires high temperature tolerant bonding and an atmospheric furnace but no more.
There is indeed another variable in quadrupoles. It is true that by themselves, static magnetic fields are velocity-invariant and electric fields are not. However, in a quadrupole, what matters isn't the magnitude of any deflection, but whether the vibrating path the particles take through the quadrupole is stable or not.
(Quadrupoles, and other 2N-poles, can be tuned so as to pass a wide range of M/Z ratios, in which case they actually serve as a guide or "pipe" for moderate-velocity charged particles.)
Obviously, a particle that is way too fast will just punch through the quadrupole without being really affected, and the percentage of wrong-mass particles that 'leak' through will be higher with a high velocity-to-quadrupole-length ratio, but it's mostly just a matter of the quadrupole being long enough.