Get a direct attach cable, and make a small board that has two SFP cages and does a 1:1 match (but swap TD and RD) between the pins on each cage. A direct attach cable implements a TD/RD pair swap, so your board will need to reverse that swap so you can plug in an SFP module. You will also need to provide power to the SFP+. According to the data sheet for a DAC, only the TD/RD pairs are wired, everything else is left open:
http://www.molex.com/pdm_docs/sd/739290001_sd.pdfMake sure the connections are controlled impedance and routed as differential pairs, the signals passing through are very high bandwidth (1.25 Gbit/s).
Given all the trouble this takes, my suggestion (if you can't re-orient the server board to expose the SFP cage on one edge) is to use copper Ethernet and an external media converter.