I've designed a small daughterboard for a Raspberry Pi that provides watchdog & battery monitoring Pi's that will be deployed with solar panels in remote locations. The 40 pin 0.1" socket is by far the most expensive item on my BOM.
So far, I've only shopped at Digikey and Mouser and I can pay $3-5/ea while I prototype, but it just seems outrageous for some pins and plastic. I don't think I'll ever see great volumes, maybe a few hundred at most. Is there somewhere else I should be looking? In my imagination this part should cost about $1. I don't know where I came up with that number. It just seems right. :-)
Related question for socket experts: My board takes up the RPI GPIO header, but it would be nicer if another board could stack on top. I could do this by putting a male header on my board, offset from the Pi's, but even better would be if I could find a male socket that had long pins, like an Arduino, that could go through and act as a male header on the other side. I really hate the Arduino ones because the pins are ridiculously long. I guess ideal would be pins just long enough to look like normal 0.1" headers on the other side. Does this animal exist? And if it does, can it be machine soldered without the pins picking up gobs of solder?