They describe it as "Quadrature", which means "90 degrees apart". They also describe the outputs as "Sine and cosine", which again implies a fixed 90 degree separation.
You might look at the AD9958, it seems to allow phase adjustment between the 2 outputs.
yea i actually found the ad9958 a bit after I made the thread but its a ball buster because it requires 1.8 and 3.3 volts!

but then using two chips requires external amplitude control on one of the chips.
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but the more I think about it the more it makes sense that any of these DDS chips should have its own power regulator, so even if I had a 5V chip I would still probably need to give it a independent LDO, so I guess I just need an extra 1.8 V regulator, which is not that bad.
I also assume the AD9958******** allows you to vary the phase of two signals of various frequencies since it has independent cores that are synchronized., which is nice
**made a typo here said ad9854!