Ok this is my thought process. Let me know if is stupid or wrong.
So currently at max volume I have two speakers at 17.5V RMS and two at 15.5RMS average resulting in less than 20A(since speakers are 4Ohm, measuring the most demanding frequency V wise) output plus whatever the amp itself consumes. So the 45A is quite a reserved estimation.
Since alternator is 90A(assuming best case), and the vehicle has some consumption by itself, I am making these assumptions at 12v:
Visor: 2A
Lights(4*55w): 18.4+-
Radio(since sending signal to amp): 4A maybe
Blinkers inner lights: 4A maybe
Autopi: 1A
Dashcam: 1A
Total 30+- (AND I STILL HAVE TO CONSIDER: Engine Fan + AC)
I am conservately estimating I only have around 5A reserve power to further use without having to upgrade alternator(having a 65A max draw for a safe margin), so I was thinking maybe I can add a fridge as well(2-3 more amps) and that'd be as much as I can have without compromising the vehicle.
Since to aux battery I'd connect the amp and maybe 3 more amps(fridge), I wouldn't have that equipment driving too many amps from the alternator.
All that said...
If I add a fuse I can be certain that the worst that will happen is a fuse replacement right?
The 4 AWG can handle 135 for chassis wiring(I think not my case) and 60 for power transmission(I assume my case since it's 5m distance).