Have made some progress.
Instead of replacing all the components with each iteration (as the spreadsheet would suggest), learned the approximate effect of each type of capacitor and changed them little by little, checking the results after each modification. In this way ended up with a reasonable tuning instead of leaping between seemingly unrelated Smith charts.
Trying to round the square, perhaps NXP recommend low tolerance caps for a production situation so that each antenna is similarly matched? Whereas if one has the time to steer ships into the harbour one by one with a lot of little nudging movements, then the result might be achieved with any sort of tolerance?
Thanks for your support. ;-)