Looking back on some of Simon's comments and schematics, I'm confused. Simon, is all you want is a super low drop diode, IE an ideal diode?
These things exist...
Example 1, a solar-panel diode: SM74611KTTR from texas instruments.
Up to 15 amps, only a 0.026v drop at 8 amps.
This is nothing more than a mosfet with a built in ideal diode gate driver with charge pump for the gate drive.
Note that the charge pump means that at around 32Khz, for a tiny fraction of time, the Mosfet auto-turns off to check for a voltage drop and to build charge to drive the gate. The 0.026v drop is the total average voltage drop over the 32KHz time. So this guy's drop is actually less and it makes almost no heat at full load.
Note that ICs exists specially to drive a mosfet to do the same as the TI solar-panel ideal diode. I don't remember who, but you would need to Google along the lines of 'mosfet ideal diode controller'.
Also, have you searched FERD diodes. I bet if not 1, 2 to 4 in parallel will get below 0.25v drop at 10 amps.