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Apple in their manual for the Ipad devices state that the lifetime is depending on the number of chargecycles, that it doesn't matter if it is a complete charge from for example 30% to 100% or from 60% to only 70%, doesn;t matter both count for the same decrease in lifespan.
You have misinterpretted their information. According to Apple, one "charge cycle" means using 100% of the charge. So if you use 20% then re-charge, and repeat this, you can do so five times before it counts as one cycle. In other words, using 20% of the battery capacity, then charging it, counts as 20% of a 'charge cycle'.
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http://www.apple.com/batteries/ :
"A charge cycle means using all of the battery’s power, but that doesn’t necessarily mean a single charge. For instance, you could listen to your iPod for a few hours one day, using half its power, and then recharge it fully. If you did the same thing the next day, it would count as one charge cycle, not two, ..."
I have seen other research that indicates that more shallow cycles degrade the battery less than the fewer deep cycles (with equivalent watt-hours used in each case).