I've looked carefully on the data for the AS3360. The maximum gain is achieved at the control voltage equal to the reference voltage, 1.7V, so there is 0.8V to spare on top of it, and the lowest control voltage is actually at 0V so there is no problem whatsoever to use just a plain diode to limit the negative control voltage and a transistor to limit the positive (to reduce current required from the reference pin).
Cheers
Alex