For my car it only counts the number of times it crosses 0.45v.
As I said above, a RC filter won't change the frequency, it'll just attenuate the waveform and more so at higher than lower frequencies.
To divide the frequency by an even number (i.e. to get 1Hz, 0.5Hz,
1/
3Hz you need a divide by n counter which will just generate a pulse or every nth pulse on the input. To divide by an odd number, it's much more complicated, you need a PLL or a microcontroller.
To be honest I think this is a waste of time, if you want to tweak the settings you should look into reprogramming the ECU rather than trying to fiddle with the input.