The Diode in reverse bias across the inputs would have NO effect, if the input is smooth DC, on the functionality. The voltage drop when in forward bias is not significant here, since the amount of current it would draw would be enough to blow the fuse anyway.
How big a fuse are you using? Adjusting the strength of the diode for the fuse, would be preferable. ALso how powerful is the PSU in total?
Most diodes can withstand avery high pulse-current, and if you find the right one, the diode would most likely survive the short-circuit.
As another idea: Add a set of connectors to the output of the PSU and the input of the buck-converter, so that you can't connect it the wrong way around?