Sorry we're not all masters like yourself. 1MEG with say 10pF load seems excessive
over industrial temperatures it would have to be a precise design.
Majority of these oscillators are datasheet copies, to dig in is very difficult. I have designed these oscillators too but the problem as I have mentioned the Observer effect makes measurements nearly impossible, unless a low cap JFET probe or inductive pickup which watchmakers use to calibrate frequency. LT Spice simulations are not useful either because the parasitic capacitances are not really known nor the crystal's SPICE model. There is always empirical work I find, and I run out of project time and patience.
One product's 32kHz oscillator refused to startup around 5°C but colder or warmer by a few degrees it would reliably start, it was awful.