Looking to get a suitable low cost radio controller for the ArduCopter, any suggestions? (and available in Oz if possible)
This is my area of expertise

The best value system on the market at the moment is the Turnigy 9X radio from HobbyKing (they have an Australian warehouse).
This is an incredibly elegant (from an EE perspective) bit of kit that uses an Atmel processor and, thanks to the hard work of others, also offers the option of a completely open-source firmware version called ER9X. The circuit diagram for this radio has also been published so "modding" it is a piece of cake -- if you want to add some extra hardware or software functionality.
The stock RF system is "okay" (far better than Spektrum's DSM2 for instance) but if you want some extra resilience you can also fit the FrSky FHSS 2.4GHz system which has the benefits of offering telemetry (two voltages and a serial data back-channel) plus user-definable failsafe.
Another bonus of this system is that it uses an RF module so, if you want potentially better performance outside "line of sight" (which 2.4GHz isn't so good for) you can fit a 35MHz FM or PCM module and use a matching receiver.
Plus recommended big 3 cell battery and charger?
The Turnigy Accucel 6 is about the best value "4-button charger" on the market. It will charge the whole range of battery chemistries (Li-Ion, Lipoly, LiFePO4, Nicad, NiMH and Pb) with a power out put of up to 6A or 60W (whichever is the lower).
And what do people do about re-charging in the field?
These 4-button chargers will recharge a decent lipo pack in about 30 minutes (from flat) and a 50% discharged pack in about 15mins.
They have a boost-buck converter so you can charge up to 6-cell packs from a 11V-18V source. Most people use their car-battery for this or, if you need truly portable recharge, one of those little 2-stroke generators with a 12V output will do the job.
The reality is that with a decent 3-cell 2200mAH lipoly battery pack costing around $14, it's just as easy to take half a dozen pre-charged batteries with you and swap them in/out as needed.
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