OK, we can look at the protection circuitry once we have better sensor resistance data.
About your relay and triac, I'm glad to see the optoisolators! But take a look at OK2 pin 6. You need to connect the opto collector instead. You might want to put a bypass cap on pin 6 but check the device specs -- I believe the base is usually left floating. For that matter, the entire OK2 driver circuit looks "interesting". Why so complex? Why the reverse-diode across the opto input? You are only going to get less than 0.4 mA of opto drive current through Q1, and that's probably not enough. Why not just drive the opto via a resistor from your logic?
And Q2 needs some protection from the relay-off flyback spike. There are various ways to do this, all pretty simple.
I haven't reviewed the design in total, these items just jumped out at me.