Like, off the shelf?!
Will an RJ45 housing even remain solid (i.e., not turn to goo) under that pressure? (I know, it will, at least if it's room temperature air, but I don't have a clue what you'd be doing, mixing that much air with Ethernet...)
I can't imagine why such a thing would exist. Maybe, say, it's water tight also, and used on submersibles? Something in drilling? An obscure industry process control? Custom lab equipment?
For sure, if nothing else, you can build one from standard parts and a hermetic feedthrough, but even then it won't be cheap. (Or you can probably find a company who'll make you a few, but I can't see that happening for under $10k NRE + tooling.)
Putting RJ45 aside -- hermetic pressure seals aren't terribly uncommon AFAIK. Spark plugs are a fine example, but a bit over the top (and inconvenient anyway, as you note). I've seen plates with arrays of glass feedthroughs, still spendy of course, but maybe you can eBay a few if you don't need the quality assurance of new manufactured with a paper trail.
As for signal integrity: 100Mb is quite tolerant. The bit times are around ten nanoseconds, so disturbances less than a few nanoseconds (about a meter long) aren't a big deal. Spark plugs would actually be hardly noticed.

Edit:
Try:
http://bfy.tw/AUwZ
Well gee, Steve, if you're going to snark, why don't you at least spell it right...
Subconn at 450 Bar, etc...
Ayyy, that's a good query though. These guys turn up:
https://www.macartney.com/what-we-offer/systems-and-products/connectivity/subconn/subconn-ethernet-series/Maybe not precisely what OP is after, but something vaguely similar seems to exist!
As for the price tag?

Tim