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Working on a add-in to a range of car-modells, but need to find a connector to
one of the control modules in the car so what we can make a kit that the user can just plug the original
wiring into without having to cut wires or stuff like that (in this case, we need to capture some LINbus packages and handle them our self)
I've found the female connector (Aptiv, modelnumber 13842310), but cannot find the male one.
Contacted the company that has the female one, but they did not have a male version.
Here is a link to the product page at Aptiv:
https://ecat.aptiv.com/feature?search=13842310I don't mind if we have to order male from other manufacture.
If someone also know what kind of crimp connectors they use, then that would also be great.
Thanks in advance