Cranking is the biggest problem for these switches.
Relays can chatter and cut out, and a mosfet expecting 10V drive gets much less which can kill it if it's supplying load.
Or the day you plug in an air compressor and expect 15A. Toyota has a hilarious 2A cig lighter ability screw that 20ga wire.
You need a charge-pump for sufficient gate-drive, or the PV optocoupler.
There are many caravan "battery isolator" circuits same application but higher current, or "ideal diode" similar circuit on Ali but hard to find on/off control and surely fake specs.
Silicon Chip Magazine "Battery Isolator" July 2019 uses two
IRFS7434-7P N-ch 40V 240A 0.70mohm D2PAK 7 pin. LM339 for LVCO and charge pump for gate drive. I'd post sch but not sure if that causes trouble.
Smaller IRFS7434PbF D2PAK or TO-262 195A 1.8mohm at 6V drive, 50A.
But for both C
iss ~11nF is high and I think would switch slow with the PV drive at say 15-40uA. I would simulate it and see how long it takes to switch them or go with smaller mosfets.
Opto-couplers are not popular in the automotive industry due to cost and few (PV) have AEC-Q101.
Vishay
VOM1271 SOP-4 or
TLP3906 and TLX9905/6 has AEC-Q101, they have internal discharge circuit.
I use an ATTiny 85 for control so it basically follows IGN after a 5-sec on and off delay (I used to drive a stick and sometimes stall it, don't want the NAV rebooting) 0.12mA quiescent.
Or press a button: single run for 3 hrs. Ign key not required. Press again: off. For charging a phone or people in the car needing power/radio when I go into a store.
Long-term average voltage used for a LVCO to avoid a dead battery. I have to do a redesign, it's all point to point wiring for years now.