Yes, definitely hot air gun. These are the same as QFNs which genrally have power pads.
If I'm fabbing the board myself without plated vias, then I drill an oversized via hole in the board where the pad is so I can reasonably reflow it and ensure there's a proper ground connection through the hole. For "proper" boards, then use several vias for both thermal and conductivty/low inductance reasons.
For my own fabbed boards, I usually solder the pad first separately from the other pins. This allows you to check the pad's connected as usually (although not always) the pad's connected to another pin so you can check continuity. If it's not directly connected to another pin, for example it's the only ground connection, you can measure for ESD diodes. That last technique you can use to check BGA fan outs too.
As I think you're not far from me, feel free to come over if you need some help. In the end you need just the right amount of bravado and a couple of spare chips and boards just in case. After that, you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.