Thanks for the quick replies!
I like the idea of the IR beam. I have some receiver/transmitter diodes already but never used them, so it would be fun to try them out.
I also have a little micro switch with a lever on it. I was going to use that to turn on a light in my truck bed when I open the bed cover but never got around to it. I'll see how shaky the stand is to see if that would work.
The reed switch idea is interesting, but I'm not excited about sticking magnets on my iron.
I often sit at my desk for a long time with the iron turned on, using it now and then, so wiring it up to the power switch for that isn't feasible as I don't want the loud fans running all the time.
I had never heard of LVDT, but scanned through the link provided. It sounds pretty cool, but I think it's way over-kill for this project!
I'm not sure the thermister would work. Wouldn't there be a delay after I pull the iron out before the fans come on, waiting for the holder/area to cool? I don't wan the complexity of a micro-controller, so there would probably be a fair amount of components, no? Although I guess I would need a few for the IR beam as well.
The fans are just on a switch now, plugged into a 4S Li-Po battery pack. A 3S pack would be ideal, but I don't have any. So far the fans have been ok running around 15V. I'm working on converting an old server PSU to use for this.
I have a 3d printer so making a mount for the additional hardware should be pretty easy.
I'll post a picture of my current setup later tonight.