Building on the good work of wolfalex and miti, I designed my own pcb for a couple of reasons: I want it as small as possible and I want the overhang on the left side keeping the right side free for any future EPROM replacement/upgrade adapter. I also included my row mod (2 posts above) to put only 1 value on each row.
First day installed and testing: read/write cal data worked, with 5V rail at 5.069V, SRAM VCC was 4.796V, FRAM VCC is 4.833V so drawing less current through the diode.
For the glue logic I used multi-function logic (74LVC1G57) to get the exact functions I wanted and squeeze everything between the DIP pins. May have slightly less logic-H margin than an "official" TTL compatible input, but works for now and will see if further testing shows any issues.
As wolfalex mentions on his website, I installed a resistor in place of the battery (see pic) to keep a comparator input from floating.