See here:
https://www.avrfreaks.net/forum/isp-spi-resistorsI think the current schematic might be OK as is, as you have the level translators and L_SS is pulled up via a resistor. So the SPI slave (max3421) should not be able to interfere with the programming lines. Debugging might be a different story, but you could use debugwire instead (uses reset line).
Generic recommendations:
- I would consider connecting the INT pin on the MAX3421 unless you are sure its not needed.
- Add a bit of bulk capacitance on the 3.3V rail, it looks like only 100nF is present.
- Check that MISO level translator is working as you expect, since signal is coming from the slave, to the master, not from master to slave as SCK/SS/MOSI are.