Hi everyone,
Sorry for the extended lack of updates. Lost some steam via lack of free time, but I also detoured to rework the thermals and layout of the system to get it to it's temporary final state so I can get back to other work.
Recently I've spent an embarrassing amount of time dinking with the sims, but realized a mistake the other day that has unlocked my ability to move forward

Earlier in this thread I said one goal of the project was to use as much of what I have on hand and spend as little as possible. But I was lacking capacitor values between 200p and 10n, and also wanted some NTCs to incorporate, so I also shopped around and ordered some LM324 and TLV2374, just in case I have problems with the LMC6484. I still don't want to sink much $ into this project, but I will take any excuse to enhance my library of parts haha.
So, starting with the new thermal/layout concept:
I switched to a short, wide, finned heatsink, mostly because the other one I could not quite fit comfortably enough to close the lid. Not sure if this new sink is optimal but I would think I could dissipate 50W continuously. I need to do more research to back that claim up though, but will likely just test it empirically



Now, onto the simulations. I've done some comparisons between the LMC6484 and TLV2374 with the simplified small signal model of my part IXTH80N075L2, as well as the model provided for a different IXYS part, used by a different user that Jay_Diddy_B also helped out. That part number is IXTN4650L, and you will notice it has even higher apparent capacitance Ciss compared to my part. So to me a reasonable hypothesis is that if my configuration is stable driving either part, there is a good chance it will be IRL.
In addition, I ran the simulation at Vin of 5V and 25V, and adjusted my model based on the datasheet values of Ciss, Crss vs. VDS:

To summarize, attached are sims showing phase margin for the following:
opamp | Mosfet | VDS
LMC6484 | IHXTH80N.. | 5V
LMC6484 | IHXTH80N.. | 25V
LMC6484 | IHXTN46N.. | 5V
LMC6484 | IHXTN46N.. | 25V
TLV2374 | IHXTH80N.. | 5V
TLV2374 | IHXTH80N.. | 25V
TLV2374 | IHXTN46N.. | 5V
TLV2374 | IHXTN46N.. | 25V
Long story short, I think I am safe to use the LMC6484, but might swap it out anyways to save it for something where its features can shine more. Please let me know any thoughts you have regarding my methodology and reasoning!
I will get around to running transient sims eventually...
Here is the schematic used for all these, in which I swapped the opamp and mosfet around to compare.

Another detail, I have decided to ditch the idea of using a big power resistor in series. With the parts I have, even at 1 ohm resistance I will be limiting my testable current to 5A at 5V (at best!) and I would like to have the ability to sink more at the low voltages, just in case! If anything, I might rig up a disconnect with overcurrent trip, or a plain old regular fuse.
There is probably more I could say, but I want to get this out here for comment.
Thanks as always for feedback!