if you are still looking 2 years later, or for those that end up here from Google,
The library is call LiquidCrystal440. Finding it without the name is rather difficult. I was written by Donald Weiman (floresta on some forums) back in 2009 or so. It basically was a mod of the standard LCD libray to account for the two 2x20 LCD. He had a site with some good information on the HD44780 displays. It is in archive heaven now -https://web.archive.org/web/20161104194254/http://web.alfredstate.edu/weimandn
Mike
EDIT: just make sure of the 2 row connector. There are three version that I know of, two are sort of inverse of each other.