For manually matching I would probably make a differential pair with sockets for the 2 transistors, and select the pairs with the best common mode input rejection. No matter how careful they are matched initially, the slightest temperature difference between the two transistors will affect the performance. Adding a common radiator for the individual transistors helps, but there will still be some thermal resistance that might keep the transistors at slightly different temperatures.
The advantage with factory matched transistors is that they are in very close proximity to each other, often on the same die, which will keep them at a much closer running temperature. Even so, that will work for pairs only, while sometimes there is a need to match more than 2 transistors.
Ideally will be to be able to make custom ICs.

Don't know for others, but I'm a little disappointed. We still can not 3D print at home our own ICs after so many years. Don't want the finest sub nanometer tech, but something from 50+ years ago should be desktop technology today, one might expect.
Rant aside, even inside the same IC, I've read there are situations where thermal pairing must be treated specially, i.e. precision opamps have a thermal axis of symmetry, where the input transistor are placed in such a way that the heat from the output stage/transistors will spread to the input transistors equally, to not ruin the matching. IIRC first introduced for uA725.
Took a search to double check that, it was George Erdi:
There are some circuit subtleties belied by the schematic's simplicity, but yet important.
Q1 and Q2 are actually a quad set (dual pairs), with the paralleled pairs straddling the
chip's axis of thermal symmetry. The idea behind this was that thermal changes due to
output stage dissipation would be seen as equal thermally induced offsets by the two
input stage halves, and thus be rejected. This principle, first established in the 725 design,
has since become a basic precision design principle (see Reference 15, again, and within
Reference 23, the Fig. 2 chip photograph).
Source: page 61 of 970
http://www.miedema.dyndns.org/co/2018/Op_Amp_Applications_Handbook-Walt-Jung_2005.pdfWell, not that I need any of such near perfect matching performance.
