Having just started playing with these types of motors..... a few thoughts.
1. Look for a motor with the required watts and with the lowest KV rating which stands for RPMs/Volt. 1000KV means at 10V, it will be screaming away doing 10 000 rpm! These motors are not quiet, not by a long shot. Granted, with a quiet propeller, it should not be too bad, if you keep the rpm low, but the whine from these high RPM motors will make it sound like you are at the Dentist!
2. There is plenty of info on how these motors are controlled to be found on the internet... you just need to search a bit. A friend is using one of this type of motor as a router motor for a CNC router which he intends to use for making small PCB's. There are devices called "Servo Testers" that are quite inexpensive, as in about $5, that will let you manually control an ESC (electronic speed controller) without the need for the remote control stuff.
3. Low KV rated motors have more poles (say 12 to 16 or thereabouts), which I am going to assume will give more starting torque than a high KV motor which can have as little as 2 poles. The ball bearings used in these cheap Chinese made motors are made cheap in.... you guessed it.... China! I'm not saying that is a bad thing but I've seen them wear out fairly quick and replacement bearings are $0.99 a set, including shipping..... from China. Locally sourced bearings from a bearing supply company were quoted at $18.00.
4. For quiet, long term use in a fan...... it's hard to beat a good old induction motor, with plain bronze bearings, running off the mains..... cheap and quiet.
Regards
Christian