How often do you intend to switch the relay on/off? The VOM1271T driver will be far too slow for any kind of power control.
Just trying to estimate how slow it could be with those mosfets choosen by @OC71

We need such amount of charge AC mosfets switch gates from typical values for
irfp4668pbf :
dQ= 2*Qg= 2*162nC= 324 nC
At 30mA
VOM1271T says about 47uA gate current, while I=dQ/dt -> dt= dQ/I, so dt= 324nC/47uA ~7 ms

At 50Hz mains we have 20ms period, so it looks like full switch on could take 30% of 50H z period time ?

Could someone verify this? maybe I've made some mistake there?
There is also something else
VOM1271T open circuit voltage at 30mA iF is maximum ~9V, so we can not get Vgs even 10V?

I was thinking it could be usable when we add zero crossing, but 7ms turn on and Vgs<10V, I do not know, I do not like it, so that is why I dismissed it.