I always feel that way with electromechanical things, it seems they really have ALOT of control over you because of some weird shape metal or coating.
The magic seems to be in special contact rivets,hard to obtain in small quantity. All they are is little rivets/staked parts with special coatings on them, or special compositions (tungsten copper, tungsten silver, etc). The other parts are like possible to DIY pretty easily, with light springs being surprisingly easy with minimal investment.
I feel a bit better about connectors because at least some of them are like machined and stuff, but electromechanical moving parts just feel like some kind of distribution lockout scam sometimes lol. Its not like some nano machined ceramic tile that involves a huge factory, its just a god damn part that could be fabricated by ancient egyptians with a anvil
maybe its a lack of education and understanding? You figure regular people would be selling those parts as simple hardware!