Ok, I can't do anything more today, this is a hobby and the ammount of time is small..
new board layout completly removes the deboucing circuit, it will be made at the MCU,
I will post the board with 100x50 dimensions tomorrow!
Kremem, about the schematic, thanks for the tips, I can't believe that I have missed the two first tips after looking at so many schematics, any more tips ?

About the PCB, well, I will be making the first one or two, then maybe outside fabrication, I use UV etching so I can produce really thin traces.
I understand the later signal and the earlier signal, when looking at this, I can only see the resistors at the input, I can paralel them and make some spacing between them, anywere else on this PCB ?
Edge with wholes connects will be made tomorrow!
Led will be visible when looking directly at the connector, they are 90º and will use plastic light carrier to the edge of the card, the schematic enables them to be on the proper side of the connector.
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Capacitors was intended to be a decoupling, but they were wrong, anyway, decoupling will be done by software.
Danceflor will be removed tomorrow.
Normal resistors are now in place, I'am very lasy, networks are way easier to solder

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Increased traces width, i think that after the varistor, maybe about 25mA, I need to check the led voltage dropp and and some opto life time calculations, they are not done yet.
Islands removed and note taken.
I have no idead why the design rules and default pad sizes were lost.. now they are the usual for fabrication ones.
I will keep reading, just need time, more sugestions are welcome! =)