We are doing a piece of monitoring equipment and we must tell if the consumer equipment we are connected to is connected to its mains voltage.. For ease of use, we dont want to connect to any of the mains terminals, which are behind access panels. The mains conductor is a standard flexible cable with L,N and E all of 1.5mm . So if I touch the insulated mains cable, I could be between 2 and say 4 mm from the active live. Yes capacitive coupling works, well at least evidenced by those simple mains detection pens.
I had figured there might be a simple packaged circuit already available that would work reliably and have suitable signal amplification and perhaps rejection of AC that might be coupled in close by cables close to mine. It might need also a reference to ground in the equipment, which we have easily.. However a search only turns up such pens, or clamp on amp meters (which as there is no current flowing and I have both connectors in a bundle will not work).