I figured it out and verified the pinout with a small Arduino program.
Basically; the Triangle points to Pin 1 or VDD.
I figured this out by using a 6x microscope and looking for the die in the package.
The LEDs I received appear to be an equilvalent to:
http://www.normandled.com/upload/202003/SK6812-EC20%20LED%20Datasheet.pdfwhich has the DIE in the top between pins 3 and 4.
See top view pp 4.
Now that I'm looking at this datasheet (and not the one the seller provides on their page) it clearly shows pin number on the "botoom" view which makes it easier. Using the botoom view in concert with the pin configuration makes it legible.
Keep in mind; don't fall for the trap I did... I had used Sparkfun's LED library with a 2020 Neopixel footprint in my PCB design. These leds do not directly fit the sparkfun library. I think I can make it work by rotating the LED; but I'm going to have to be careful in triple verify.
Finally; for those using FastLED.io's library; this LED seems to bet GRB or:
FastLED.addLeds<SK6812, DATA_PIN, GRB>(leds, NUM_LEDS);