Use a mate black solder mask and you won't ser the tracks all over the place...
Making footprints is easy enough in eagle, you can do it, I even make footprints for one offs if I need a particular placement when using eagle.
Odd pitches are kind of wired to work with, but in eagle you can make tracks inside the pads, if you start from that pad you can make the track first snap inside of it and then route out from there, if your pad is big enough as 1206 you can start the track from it or even from either ends and meet n the way, then there's the sop where you have to stick to the pad, you could fan those out, the smaller ones, and go from there to a more reasonable size and start from there.
10 10 rule seems a bit permissive but you probably can live with that if using 1206 and it's your first design, then you could go for tighter stuff. You should consider magnification, it's quite needed at least to check those smaller packages after soldering, you will miss some shorts otherwise.
JS