You probably are doing too many starts on the motor. If you are switching the motor to regulate flow I would suggest using some water valves and running the motor full time, and use the valves and some orifices to bleed off water instead, so that you can switch in say up to 3 drains to reduce pressure before finally switching the motor off.
Adding the MOV across the motor will help protect the switch, but the current surge in starting the motor will cause issues with frequent stop start operation, you might want to look at zero cross switches to start the motor, just to reduce the current spike at turn on a little. With nthe zero cross switch you would need the MOV in any case, along with a snubber across the triac block to keep it from triggering on spikes.