When I saw the word "sandpaper", I thought it would have been used to decrease the size of the crystal itself instead of reducing the mass of the electrodes plated on that crystal. And, after seeing the video where the sealed crystal can was sawed open and it was the plated side electrodes that were sandpapered, I still wonder if perhaps a diamond grit could be used to remove part of the crystal material at the top where there was a flat on the circumference of the round disk.
In fact, I wonder if perhaps that is how the factory tuned the crystals to a final value before the cans were sealed. I have to wonder if anyone else may have thought this would work if a higher frequency was wanted.
That would have raised the frequency which was what the OP wanted. But I wonder if you needed to decrease the frequency, perhaps there may be a way to chemically deposit more metal on those electrodes to increase their mass, thus lowering the frequency.