When you say "soldering and resting" do you mean you are actually soldering the tube to the PCB rather than plugging it into a proper socket, or a cheaper DIY made up one using socket pins?
Quite apart from the fact that tube pins are nearly impossible to solder anyway, soldering a Nixie or any vacuum tube is a definite no-no. Even for the very reason that these things don't often have a good lifespan and fail and need simple replacement. You wouldn't solder your households lights rather than use the regular twist or screw fit instead would you?
Also, my own Nixie has a DC-DC HV switch mode converter that can up 5V to 190V DC. However I am led to believe the tubes, IN-12B, are actually designed to run on 240VAC with a half-wave rectifier. I really hope you are using a small isolation transformer, even a DIY one, if you are running them in this mode!
ETA:

blowing up the pics it looks like they are socketed. Try swapping the tubes around, but that seems too obvious!
ETA2: Why do the "sockets" if that is what I think they are appear to have melted gouges in them, like you have prodded them all with the tip of your soldering iron???