I found some LCA110 (by IXYS, they call it OptoMOS) on ebay quite cheap (less than 10€ for 10, the guy only had 50, so I guess it was surplus). I'll start experimenting with those.
I looked at other vendors for other parts, but most of them had either high shipping costs (mouser wants 20€ to ship to Austria for example), not really that big of a selection, or were very pricey per part (I'll need 10-15 eventually, and since it's for a hobby project, I'm skimping whereever I can

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I was thinking of building the bipolar opto/MOSFET switch, but I need multiple of them and I'd rather have to solder a single component than multiple (size is an issue as well; I want to add that onto another circuit into an existing case). I also have an application in mind where I not only don't have any power available, but not even a common ground so I'd need a proper "relay".