Bonjour, BRAVO for the project, like the first relay computer Zuse Z1 in Germany 1936!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Z1_(computer)
What relay and supply V will you try?
1/ DC Relays can have high inductance 100s mhy...Hys this the stored energy is L * I(exp 2), perhaps some joules. THe sudden break of current causes a hig voltage limited only by the insulation and stray L, C.
2/ NE-2 and other neon's are rated for ~ 10 Ma and not high I pulses, but special calibrated gas spark gaps (CP Claire, Siemens) were intended for such use. However hose are costly and hard to find.
3/ before semiconductors we used RC snubber or a Zinc Oxide protector, ("MOV")
4/ For a small relay 5..24 VDC, try a 10...100 nF plastic cap in series with 100 Ohm 1/2W R.
Like to see schema and photos when its done.
Bon Chance
Jon